Love the One You’re With
(Enrollment is closed. Join the waitlist for the Spring session.)
Makeover your marriage once and for all.
I can’t tell you how often I talk to women who aren’t happy in their marriage.
They tell me,
“I don’t want a divorce but can’t imagine living like this for the rest of my life.”
Can you relate?
The thing is, if you knew how or what to do to change your marriage, you would, for sure, do it.
That’s just the kind of person you are. Smart, driven, successful. You can usually figure this kind of stuff out.
But it’s been years of the same pattern, the same fight, again and again.
-It’s wearing you down. You are exhausted. You literally can’t handle one more fight. So usually you just avoid him all together.
-It’s made you into a different person than you want to be with him. Dissimissive. Standoffish. Fussy. You don’t remember what it is like to be “the real you” with him.
-You know you aren’t fun anymore. You want to go with the flow but you tend to control everything. Who would you even be with out your never ending To Do list and packed schedule? But you kinda don’t mind, it’s all a good distraction from your crumbling relationship.
-You are really nice to everyone else. People love you. But when it comes to your hubby, you aren’t. When it comes to him, it is one word answers or totally ignoring him, even when you are in the same room. Hello, cold shoulder.
-Your hubby might know something is wrong. He might not. It doesn’t really matter because you feel it and think about it all the time. It’s just easier when he is not around and you know, “I can’t keep doing this.”
So, what would actually solve the problem?
Him changing. Yess. That’s it. It would so solve ALL your problems. Emptying the dishwasher. Less time on the golf course. Him planning THE date night.
But…..that hasn’t happened yet.
And those feelings:
all of the anger
sadness
frustration
loneliness
resentment
….are just building up which means, most of the time, you don’t know whether you want to cry or scream at him.
And now you feel stuck. “I don’t even know what to do at this point.”
I want you to know, no matter how stuck you feel, it can ALL change.
When you know:
Exactly what to do to stop a fight before it even starts
How to communicate what you need in way where he will WANT to help you
WHY he’s thinking and doing the things that drive you crazy (and why you react to some things and not others)
How to not get your feelings hurt all.the.time
WHAT you even want your marriage to look like - how you want to feel about it, what the best-case scenario would be, what he would be doing, what kind of wife you’d be…
-That’s when your marriage feels FUN and EASY again.-
Which means you finally:
Have energy to do OTHER things for you. {gasp} I am talking yoga, evening walks, listening to podcasts, organizing the spice drawers (you do you, boo)
Solve problems and disagreements like it’s no big deal
Grab his hand and smile at him, because it feels so freakin’ good
Joke and laugh. Life is so much more fun when we aren’t so serious 🤣
You might even *want* to cuddle and be intimate. Maybe?
Introducing
Love the One You’re With
A 4-month program to go from constant frustration and anger in your marriage to enjoying and having fun with your husband
This is possible for you.
In this 4 month program I will help you go from…..
feeling disconnected when he’s sitting right next to you
moving through your days like a robot in your interactions with him because you have soooooo much to do always
being frustrated because you do it all, all.the.time
making excuses when he wants to be intimate
getting in the same fight again and again that spirals into no talking for days on end
constantly thinking about how much the relationship isn’t gonna work and you have no idea how to fix it
TO:
laughing with each other and actually enjoying him
slipping a hug in between making lunches and having coffee in the morning because you want to be next to him
communicating the things you want and need that are on your mind without it starting a fight
ending THE same fight that comes up again and again
getting your BFF back, feeling supported and loved
knowing exactly what to do next time he pisses you off instead of yelling
and even wanting to be intimate again and (maybe for the first time) enjoying it
I know it’s possible for you because I’ve been where you are and know just what it takes to Love the One You’re With…… again.
Hi! I am Jess Klasnick.
I’ve been married to my hubby, Matt, for the past 17 years.
The first 5 years of our marriage were fine but after that things *changed*. We became busy. We both worked a lot. We had 3 young kids. We were like roommates.
And then our marriage started deteriorating…....quickly.
We’d go out for date nights (because that was suppose to help a struggling marriage, right?) but I wouldn’t have fun. I felt like he was angry and grumpy most of the time, yelling at the kids, frustrated with work. I had no idea how to talk to him about any of this without it turning into a fight. And those fights would last for days……
For the next 3 years, I thought about divorce every single day. Every fight, every Valentine’s Day without flowers, feeling lonely when he sat right next to me, confirmed that it was my only option. But the weird thing was, I didn’t want to get divorced BUT I couldn’t imagine spending the rest of my life like this. I had no idea what to do.
Well, fast forward 5 year later and I couldn’t imagine NOT being with him. My heart literally bursts when I see him. We laugh. We cry. Being intimate is fun. We rely on each other. We are vulnerable. We are honest. It feels sooooo good.
And, I want this goodness for you too.
How do I know?
As a certified Women’s Life Coach with The Life Coach School and graduate of RaMa Institute for Applied Yogic Science and Technology, I work with a library of tools to create change that includes causal coaching, meditation, and future focus principals. These techniques focus on a mastering of the mind to create change, quickly and effectively. Love the One You’re With is my signature program curated to makeover your marriage….. for good. It’s part science, part magic. ✨
This is how Love the One You’re With will reinvent your marriage……..
16 private and powerful weekly Zoom sessions with me, Jess, and your LTOYW sisters.
Learning the Love the One You’re With principals and tools. The curriculum used, exclusively, to coach my one on one clients up until now.
Breakthrough live group coaching sessions to help you create new patterns, understand old ones and create change FAST.
Private FB group for coaching, support and community in between live Zooms.
2 meditations for daily practice used to break subconscious patterning. (It is the superbooster for our work.)
A 2 hour live kickoff via Zoom early January 2022
Recordings of all content forever and ever (if you are like me, you like rewatching this stuff.
A money back guarantee. Yep. This works. If you do the work (showing up to the calls, participating on Zoom and in Facebook group) and haven’t created change in your relationship by the end of our time together, you get your money back. It’s a no brainer.
I don’t mess around here. (Obviously.)
You can create the change you want to see in your relationship.
This Relationship Program Changes Everything. When you say YES, you’re opening yourself up to the possibilities of actually having what you want.
Here is what my clients are saying:
It feels like everything is flowing easily. I don’t have to control or force anything. I have let go of all that. We are laughing so much more. Everything feels more easy going. I am not nit picking, like an old married couple. All of that is gone. Working with you has created so much less mental drain and stress. I feel so energetic and light. I feel so much better. - T.B.
“We were struggling and I realized how much my thoughts were hurting us in the process. Now? We just booked an anniversary trip and a birthday trip. I freaking love my husband.”
— B.W.
“Wow wow wow. Blowing my mind right now. We fought every day for months. We just went five days without a single argument.”
— B.P.
“You have given me perspective to enjoy my husband so much more.”
— S.S.
“Love this, I am so thankful for you and the chance I gave myself when I chose to work with you.”
- A.M.
You get to create the story of your marriage.
Decide it’s time to create a story you love.
I invite you to take a moment to imagine what’s possible for you:
What would it be like to wake up each morning feeling connected to your hubby? You roll over and want to check in before you pop out of bed and start your day.
To actually communicate with him easily and with joy? It becomes soooo effortless.
To look forward to being with him for the next 50 years and have a heart full of love for him and yourself.
This is SO possible for you.
If you choose to sign up to Love the One You’re With here’s what to expect-
Click the “Yesss!!!!” button below. Complete and submit.
Once accepted into LTOYW, your transformation begins immediately. You will receive instructions on how to get started.
Mark your calendar: Early January you’ll connect with your LTOYW sisters in the private FB group.
Early January we will kick off with our live 2-hour Zoom event. Be there.
After that we meet each Monday evening until late April on Zoom at 5pmP.
Experience powerful change.
You ready?
The investment for Love the One You’re With is $2500 USD.
I believe you deserve all the things you want in your relationship and you wouldn’t have landed here if you weren’t ready to figure that out.
Enroll for the waitlist now.
I want you to make an educated decision to join us so here are the answers to some questions you might have:
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There is power in the energy of the live calls. You will have an opportunity to get and be coached. I expect you to plan and prioritize the calls. With that said, all calls are recorded and uploaded into the FB group.
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Nope. Just you.
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See the money back guarantee below.
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Shoot me an email at jessica@jessicaklasnick.com and I will get back to you as soon as I can. If your question is something like “Will this work for me?” read through this page again and you decide. If it is not a, “This is scary and exactly what I need” all at once then it isn’t the right next step for you right now.
